Posts Tagged ‘creativity coach’

Interview tomorrow with Susan Stott Miller

Happy Monday! 

I didn’t blog on Friday as I usually do as I had my grandkids (all three of them over), my daughter and daughter-in-law as well as my parents over for lunch and play time.  By the time they left i crashed on the bed and fell asleep!  I am a hands on Grandma and do run around a lot – guess i don’t have the stamina I used to!Sam_Toby_meme

Here’s a quick photo of Sam and Toby wearing the muscle shirts we tie dyed a couple of weeks ago. Aren’t they adorable? We made a t-shirt for Cillian too but he wasn’t wearing it in the photo below.

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I thought this shot was the cutest. I saw little Toby and Cillian (cousins) playing with matchbox cars. They looked like little mushrooms had sprung up from the grass!

Video interview tomorrow!

Tomorrow I’ll be posting an interview with Creativity Coach Susan Stott Miller so today’s blog is brief!  I had such fun being interviewed by Susan – i was her first “artists interviewee”! Yay!

Love, Violette xo

Making your Creative Mark: Nine Keys to Achieving your Artistic Goals

I hope you all had a wonderful weekend!

You’re in for a real treat!  Today on my blog I’m featuring an excerpt of Eric Maisel’s lastest book Making your Creative Mark. Every once in a while i am sent a book which might be of interest to me.  This book definitely is of interest and is just what the doctor ordered Smile

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At times I tend to be a bit airy fairy about wanting to make it as an artist.  The ideas and wishes are in my head and often do not see the light of day or I let the voices inside my head deter me from moving forward on some ideas.  In this book Eric explains what is going on and how to deal with these issues in practical easily digestible steps.  Who better to help the artist than the foremost creativity coach Eric Maisel?

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I found myself wanting to become more organized and focused after reading Eric’s book. It helped ground me and heighten my resolve to live a life as an artist. This book isn’t just for visual artists – it’s for writers, singers, filmmakers, musicians, craftspeople and actors. Making your Creative Mark will definitely be my GO TO book when i feel like I am floundering and rudderless and need some direction. I hope you check it out as well!

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This is Eric Maisel.  If you want to have a chance to win a creativity coaching session with Eric enter the giveaway on the New World Library blog.

I hope you enjoy this excerpt from his latest book!

CONFIDENT CREATING

By Eric Maisel

If you want to live a creative life and make your mark in some competitive art field like writing, film-making, the visual arts, or music, and if at the same time you want to live an emotionally healthy life full of love and satisfaction, you need an intimate understanding of certain key ideas and how they relate to the creative process.

One key idea is that you must act confidently whether or not you feel confident. You need to manifest confidence in every stage of the creative process if you want to get your creative work accomplished. Here’s what confidence looks like throughout the creative process.

Stage 1. Wishing

‘Wishing’ is a pre-contemplation stage where you haven’t really decided that you intend to create. You dabble at making art, you don’t find your efforts very satisfying, and you don’t feel that you go deep all that often. The confidence that you need to manifest during this stage of the process is the confidence that you are equal to the rigors of creating. If you don’t confidently accept the reality of process and the reality of difficulty you may never really get started.

Stage 2. Incubation/Contemplation

During this second stage of the process you need to be able to remain open to what wants to come rather than defensively settling on a first idea or an easy idea. The task is remaining open and not settling for something that relieves your anxiety and your discomfort. The confidence needed here is the confidence to stay open.

Stage 3. Choosing Your Next Subject

Choosing is a crucial part of the creative process. At some point you need the confidence to say, “I am ready to work on this.” You need the confidence to name a project clearly (even if that naming is “Now I go to the blank canvas without a pre-conceived idea and just start”), to commit to it, and to make sure that you aren’t leaking confidence even as you choose this project.

Stage 4. Starting Your Work

When you start a new creative work you start with certain ideas for the work, certain hopes and enthusiasms, certain doubts and fears – that is, you start with an array of thoughts and feelings, some positive and some negative. The confidence you need at that moment is the confidence that you can weather all those thoughts and feelings and the confidence to go into the unknown.

Stage 5. Working

Once you are actually working on your creative project, you enter into the long process of fits and starts, ups and downs, excellent moments and terrible moments – the gamut of human experiences that attach to real work. For this stage you need the confidence that you can deal with your own doubts and resistances and the confidence that you can handle whatever the work throws at you.

Stage 6. Completing

At some point you will be near completing the work. It is often hard to complete what we start because then we are obliged to appraise it, learn if it is good or bad, deal with the rigors of showing and selling, and so on. The confidence required during this stage is the confidence to weather the very ideas of appraisal, criticism, rejection, disappointment and everything else that we fear may be coming once we announce that the work is done.

Stage 7. Showing

A time comes when we are obliged to show our work. The confidence needed here is not only the confidence to weather the ideas of appraisal, criticism, and rejection but the confidence to weather the reality of appraisal, criticism, and rejection. Like so many other manifestations of confidence, the basic confidence here sounds like “Bring it on!” You are agreeing to let the world do its thing and announcing that you can survive any blows that the world delivers.

Stage 8. Selling

A confident seller can negotiate, think on her feet, make pitches and presentations, advocate for her work, explain why her work is wanted, and so on. You don’t have to be over-confident, exuberant, over the top – you simply need to get yourself to the place of being a calmly confident seller, someone who first makes a thing and then sells it in a business-like manner.

Stage 9: New Incubation and Contemplation

While you are showing and selling your completed works you are also incubating and contemplating new projects and starting the process all over again. The confidence required here is the confident belief that you have more good ideas in you. You want to confidently assert that you have plenty more to say and plenty more to do – even if you don’t know what that “something” is quite yet.

Stage 10: Simultaneous and Shifting States and Stages

I’ve made the creative process sound rather neat and linear and usually it is anything but. Often we are stalled on one thing, contemplating another thing, trying to sell a third thing, and so on. The confidence needed throughout the process is the quiet, confident belief that you can stay organized, successfully handle all of the thoughts and feelings going on inside of you, get your work done, and manage everything. This is a juggler’s confidence—it is you announcing, “You bet that I can keep all of these balls in the air!”

Manifest confidence throughout the creative process. Failing to manifest confidence at any stage will stall the process. It isn’t easy living the artist’s life: the work is taxing, the shadows of your personality interfere, and the art marketplace if fiercely competitive. If you learn some key ideas, for instance that you must act confidently whether or not you feel confident, you give yourself the best chance possible for a productive and rewarding life in the arts.

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Eric Maisel is the author of Making Your Creative Mark and twenty other creativity titles including Mastering Creative Anxiety, Brainstorm, Creativity for Life, and Coaching the Artist Within. America’s foremost creativity coach, he is widely known as a creativity expert who coaches individuals and trains creativity coaches through workshops and keynotes nationally and internationally. He has blogs on the Huffington Post and Psychology Today and writes a column for Professional Artist Magazine. Visit him online at http://www.ericmaisel.com.

Adapted from the new book Making Your Creative Mark ©2013 by Eric Maisel. Published with permission of New World Library http://www.newworldlibrary.com